But, Chilli insists that when it’s over, it’s over, as far as she’s concerned.
"In any relationship, even when it came to my relationship with Usher, when it was time to make a move, I had to do that," she said.
A month after the release of So Amazin, Milian's representative confirmed that she had left Island Records due to creative differences. A single, ballad "Us Against the World", was released in October 2008.
Even if you want it to be, it just doesn't work out that way." "But I'll always love him, forever, because he was my first adult love, a real love," she added. The "OMG" crooner filed for divorce in 2009; the couple have two sons together -- Usher V, 5, and Naviyd, 4.
"All of those songs on , that was about Jermaine Dupri's situation. But people kind of bought into it, it was just the timing of our breakup when the album came out." Although neither Chilli nor Usher ever spoke officially about the exact cause of their breakup, many close to the couple always alluded to that fact their union was as passionate as it was explosive and that he did something unforgivable to her.
RELATED: 5 Things You Didn't Know About Chilli and T-Boz “So people assumed that album was about us, but it was not," she continued. We broke up because I guess it was that time or whatever…he was that real love for me." This may come as surprise to fans that watched the ratings smash hit on VH1 this week, which chronicled Chill’s turbulent, yet passionate ups and downs in her relationship with producer Dallas Austin.
(They first met in 1993 when Usher signed a record deal at the ripe old age of 14. Chilli's sexy white crop top and hip chain didn't hurt, either.
(See video below.): "He portrayed himself as faithful, and he wasn't. There are always signs that something isn't comfortable 100 percent.