But deeper than that, what you’re hoping is for me to confirm that I see things the way you want them to be – “he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, etc.” You ever play those games? It’s a sense that you don’t really believe that it could be true, but you really want it to be.
A lot of the time, women fall into the trap of playing “emotional detective”: They dig into their memories and observations and go through EVERY insignificant detail to try and uncover some “hidden message” or “secret code” that the guy is sending.
To answer your question from the information you’ve given me… From what you told me, my read on what you’re trying to figure out is one of three scenarios: a) you want to know that he likes you because knowing someone likes you feels good, b) he is indifferent to you (in the romantic sense), but you and you’re seeing what you want to see, c) you don’t know whether or not he likes you, but you’d be open to starting something with him.
We also discuss how a man needs to deal with the typical transsexual woman, what she is and is not.
And you thought about asking her out..then had second thoughts about it. Girls, help out the guys who contact you about a date.
We talk about things like that at this transgender dating website. You might well come away with a whole new understanding. If you think they misunderstand things about you, if you think they need more information on dating a pre-op transsexual, send them a link to this website, or put a link to this site on your own site (scroll down for the link code).
Perhaps your date wants a tall women with blonde hair. Many disabled people just give up, even though many singles are for dating with disabled.
It’s just a matter of matching the right people together. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, as everyone has their own ways of doing things anyway.